Swan pond at Culzean |
On the spiritual journey, there is usually someone in our family, business or community whom we cannot endure, someone who has a genius for bringing out the worst in us. No matter what we do, we cannot seem to improve the relationship. They have not done anything to cause it. God simply uses them to reflect back to us what our problem is. Thus the person who gives us the most trouble may be our greatest gift from God.
Source: Invitation to love
"may," he says. Fortunately -- not "must" or "will" but "may." I'm clinging to that...
ReplyDeletePhew! Thanks for that Crimson - I hadn't spotted that possible get out clause and I'm all flummoxed with confusion. Been carrying this in my head for much of the day, wanting to reject but not quite able - until now maybe:)
ReplyDeleteOh... that is a deeply challenging quote. Food for much pondering and praying methinks... ouch!
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